God Before Mortgage

Here’s a news article written by Nick Carey that i read on Reuters. The title is, “For many U.S. Christians, it’s God before mortgage”. I have quoted and commented on certain portions of this news article below.

While millions may lose their homes during the worst housing slump since the Great Depression, some devout Christians among them will do so in part because they will not give up tithing. . .

you will find some people for whom obedience to God comes second to none, . . . For those people, a contract with God is worth more than their home

Milton Sharp, a home ownership specialist at NeighborWorks, an umbrella group of 230 nonprofits, said for many borrowers tithing is “mandatory and not a discretionary item that can be cut.

Granted, people have been poor stewards of their finances, and have made bad decisions to get into homes that was a risk for them to afford later on. But to say that your contract with God carries more spiritual weight than your contract on earth is ridiculous. Remember the context of the quote, “give unto Caesar’s what is Caesar’s and unto God what is God’s”? Here is the passage:

Luke 20
Then they asked Him, saying, “Teacher, we know that You say and teach rightly, and You do not show personal favoritism, but teach the way of God in truth: Is it lawful for us to pay taxes to Caesar or not?”

But He perceived their craftiness, and said to them, “Why do you test Me? Show Me a denarius. Whose image and inscription does it have?”

They answered and said, “Caesar’s.”

And He said to them, “Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s.”

The answer is that giving to God is not more important than paying your taxes. Your purpose on earth is just as much pay your bills as it is to give to your church. People get mixed up when they think that God is asking for a denarius, or the dollar, or the yen or the euro. Sure, we give money to the poor, to our church, or to hurricane victims; but money is not what God is seeking. Unfortunately, thousands/millions of tithers are caught in the mindset that God is one big tax collecter sitting up in heaven counting the pennies that you owe Him. It makes me wonder about the order of wording in that passage. Notice Jesus says first, “render unto Caesar’s what is Caesar’s”. I don’t know. I’m not a greek buff, but if Jesus did state it in that order, i wonder if He had a reason to state “give to caeser” first.

“Often it’s the folks who can least afford it who tithe,” said Regina Grant of the Atlanta Cooperative Development Corp.

Isn’t this an interesting statistic. I don’t understand it really. These people are tithing and are expecting the windows of heaven to open. Obviously, the windows aren’t opening, but they are still tithing. I admire their faith, sincerity and boldness towards the promises of the tithe.

This reminds me of my tithing testimony. My parents had 8 children, and my father was basically the only one working. He had a blue collar job, and was sending all the kids to a private school. My parents were faithfully tithing every week, but let me tell you, the bills and credit cards were piling up. We were the least that could afford to tithe, but yet we were tithing. My parents believed in the promises and curses of the tithe. They were suckered into this mystical Old Testament curse, and did not adhere to basic stewardship principles. You cannot be in debt and afford to give. You cannot serve two masters. You cannot be a slave to debt and expect to serve other causes with your giving also.

“I made an agreement with the Lord 30 years ago and I have tithed ever since,” said the woman, who declined to give her name in an interview. “Nothing could persuade me to give that up. My relationship with God comes first.”

All these twisted lies of the tithe. I’ve heard many say that the tithe confirms our relationship with God. Somehow, by tithing we are declaring God over our lives. As if the tithe was the literal cross of the Christian life. I guess it is true, the tithe is the literal cross of many misled Christians. Unfortunately, we don’t think Jesus paid the price and fulfilled all the old laws, so we feel that we have continue carrying the burden of the old testament on our shoulders. There are burdens that we have to bear in the New Testament, but the tithe is not one of them. We are to take care of the needs, help the poor, and supply for the saints. Sacrificial giving is important and commanded, but 10% minimum requirement is not a command for the Spirit led Church.

People really believe that God will be happy if they tithe even though they can’t pay their bills. Why would God be happy that you defame his name through financial negligence? In one of Jesus’ parables in Matthew 25, He tells how God would despise the servant who gives 100% back, if we act upon poor stewardship principles. God will not reward you because you sacrificed your house. God is not smiling just because you are faithfully tithing. In fact he may punish you because of your poor stewardship.

Even if your house and mortgage was a financial mistake, paying your mortgage is one of the most spiritual decisions you can ever make. There is no spiritual difference in writing a check to your church or writing a check to your bank. Just because your check goes to a church does not sanctify your poor stewardship.

In closing, Render unto Caesar’s what is Caesar’s and unto God what is God’s. In financial hardship, the easy way out is to simplify what Jesus said and exclude Caesar. But Jesus didn’t insert the clause, “in case of financial hardship, only give to God”.

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5 Responses

  1. Joel B Says:

    It’s so sad what people will go through just so they can “pay” their tithe. A few months ago I shared a couple of stories of people who felt obliged to pay a tithe to their church. One of them said her problem was that she didn’t do it “joyfully.” So she was advised to follow a list of rules and principles in order to have more joy in her life. The second one was much worse… the woman said they couldn’t afford to pay their tithe, so they sold their house, taking a huge loss on it, and were now able to pay their tithe. If interested, the stories are here in “Joyful living and joyful giving” Part 1 and
    Part 2.

    It’s simply sad that people go through this all because of faulty teaching in the church today.

    And about people tithing, waiting for heaven to open up and pour out blessings… I’ve never heard of anyone who this actually happened to, and yet they keep on tithing, believing it will happen someday if they just stay faithful to their tithing. And the sad thing as well, is that many people share testimonies of “God providing for them,” such as getting a new refrigerator or car just when they needed it, and they say it’s all because they tithed. That doesn’t sound like the windows of heaven opening and blessing them with so much that they won’t have room to contain it all! It sounds like a God who provides for His children because they are His children. :)

  2. Stephen Says:

    ‘Prove me now’ is a repeat of the ‘tempt’ in Exodus 17. After they tithed their manna into a pot they tempted God for water. God merely repeats the pattern in Malachi 3. Proving or tempting God is a sin. To think that you will get rain from heaven by giving enough money is wrong. To teach this is more wrong. Those who get their gain from tithe collecting miss the promise of Isaiah 33:15. The reward is the bread (manna, fruit of land) i.e. tithe.

  3. Foreclosure, Tithing, & Guilt | Tithing & Stewardship Says:

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  4. freewillgiver Says:

    My brother lost his house and declared bancrupcy. I attempted to tell him that tithing was of the dead law. We argued. My twin brother who is also against tithing tried to tell my tithing younger brother to stop tithing but he continued. It is amazing how old traditions are hard to stop once they have been started. My parents had a similar story to yours. They were tithers they went bankrupt at least three times. They still contiued to tithe. My dad died finacially frustrated.

  5. jake Says:

    Seems that common sense is in order.
    I have given happily to my church.
    However, everytime you give, there is a reason to give MORE. As others have mentioned, there are a list of reasons for why you weren’t blessed by tithing….i.e. you weren’t cheerful, God thinks your parted your hair on the wrong side today, your grandmother played with a Ouija board, ect.
    I go to a megachurch where I can’t get a phone call or an email returned, but i sure get those reminders on tithing.
    I keep hearing stories in other states about people who have lost jobs and are looking for temporary financial help, and their churches are turning them away.
    I’ve never asked for help but i wonder if it did, would i get it?

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